Here is a subject that I tossed around in my head for a bit, wondering if I should write about it or not. By default (too many other taboo topics) it won. Hooray! Let's talk about birthday parties. I love a good birthday party. Growing up we had great birthday parties. Epic even. They were at home, the food and cake was homemade and we gave out goody bags containing hard tootsie rolls and impossible to do plastic maze things in which the tiny metal ball could not get into the only partially punched out hole. And by we, I mean my generation, not necessarily my family, though we had some great ones.
We are in a season of birthdays right now and I have never felt more inferior than I have about these darn parties. Seriously, they are beautiful and fun and I wish I could throw one for Lilly. She was in heaven at the last one at Parteaz. They make me a little sad and a little upset that I cannot do something similar.
Or am I? I have had 3 birthday parties for Lilly, all at home, but all much bigger than originally conceptualized. Truthfully, we cannot afford an expensive birthday party this year. Also, throwing birthday parties at my house make me super stressed out. I spend more money than planned, boss everyone around and I sweat like crazy. Not an attractive look, let me tell you. And, for instance, if I threw a tea party at this place, I would still have to host a family birthday party.
And in case you did not know, Lilly's birthday is May 7th, mine is May 9th and Mother's Day generally falls somewhere around there too. Yeah, crazy. In fact for the first two years/birthday parties, they were held on my birthday and then Mother's Day was the next day. At first I didn't really mind, who needs birthdays anyway. But the older I get the more I think I should celebrate my birthday. I am going to be 37 dammit! Get me a freaking buttercream cake! Or any other cake from Natale's Bakery.
Here is my plan for this year: See the in-laws in PA at their house to celebrate Lilly's birthday and Mother's Day at some point on some weekend. (After my father-in-law's recent illness, I think it is easiest for him.) See my family, most of who live much closer, on another day and have pizza and cake. Bring cupcakes and maybe goodie bags to school - always fun times. And the weekend before her birthday we are going to spend some time with her 2 BFFs who happen to be brother and sister. We will do a playdate thing together, dads included, and have a great time. Less money, less stress, but more good times. We have many years of birthdays ahead of us when I will be able to spend lots of money that I will then have. And we will thoroughly enjoy the beautiful parties to which we are invited! But oh, what a beautiful fairy princess my Lilly makes...
|Lilly and the birthday princess|
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